Nothin Can Compare

So a lot has happened since I last posted. My love returned home. It was an incredible reunion. It does seem like it never happened....yet our hearts can def tell that it has. Sometimes I find myself watching him and thinking, "Really? Two years has seriously gone by...I REALLY have him back now? For good? We can finally move on now?" We took things nice and easy, attended the temple together, and both knew that we couldn't live without the other. Life just isn't as enjoyable. I'm a total pansie...I know. But really, days are so much more colorful when they are spent with him. I admit though, that I hope that my children have no close relationships before their missions. TOO HARD! :) So Bailey popped the question exactly a month after we had been reunited. I had no idea it was coming. He practically begged me to go to Idaho Falls with him and I was completely lost bc I didn't understand why he would want me to go and watch him work. Well little did I know that many people were involved in this whole scheme and I was just clueless. The night we stayed he told me that he wouldn't be able to propose for a few weeks which also threw me even farther of the idea he was going to ask. February 8th he insisted on taking me to a special spot in Rexburg. I was trying to get him to change his mind due to shortage of time and bc Rexburg is freezing haha. Well we did go and he for some reason got all cleaned up, lookin nice and spiffy....huh. Then....he drove REALLY fast...once again....huh. We got to our special river and he took me out in middle and gave me a hug. In middle of the nice hug he said my name REAL serious....like, I've never heard him say my name so serious. When I looked up at him he started reaching into his pocket....my belly started to twirl as my mind raced, "No way....he isn't.....oh yes he is...." He then popped the question and had a beautiful ring. I gladly said yes and we ran back to the warm car! :) He picked out the perfect ring, I love it and it's just what I wanted. It's fun when you both like the exact same things. I'm very excited to start our life together. It's rather a stressful and scary process...but yet not at the same time. I can't wait. Marriage is a....scary thing. Even after my mission I found myself shying away from the thought for a while. I don't want things to ever get...OLD. I want to stay gitty and young forever. I don't want to get "use" to each other. I just don't want to ever loose the incredible feelings that young love has. Bc of my feelings after my mission I've been able to actually learn a lot. There are ways to keep things new and fresh :) And...marriage isn't 50/50....it's 100/100. Yes there will be rough times, and we will have misunderstandings, but as long as we are both committed to each other, focusing on the other and their needs, focusing on their qualities and strengths, together we can make marriage a beauiful fun thing. Together we will experience new things and fall in love with them over and over again as we continue to get to know each other. Something that I've learned about Bailey in just the past few days is that he really pays attention to the small things and he continues to learn about me every day. Like randomly the other night I said that I was craving that grape gum that is like a foot long. While I was distracted by our FHE Wii bowling tournament he quickly raced in my car to the resort to get me some gum. They didn't have any, but he did it. Then he remembered that there was this mexican bakery that I had mentioned I wanted to go in sometime. For Love Day he got desert from there. So thoughtful. I'm learning a lot. Oh and save the date....May 6th :) So that is the great news. But...I can def say that being a RM isn't really all that great. Actually....it really....SUCKS. It's been really hard....and I mean hard. I got home to find that it's a lot harder to have the spirit 24/7 at home than it is on my mission. I have to actually work for it. I have applied to a dozen jobs and heard nothing. So I sit at home and try to do little projects and find people to serve. I really try to implement Sister Phillips to RM Lynette Phillips. Satan works on me a lot....just like any RM, with feelings of crap like worthlessness and idleness and such. But I'm hangin on to hope. I'm sure that once I get a nice steady job and am making money that things will def look up. Hopefully it will help with my trunkyness.... Ya. Trunkyness. I miss New York like CRAZY. I want to go back so bad. My dream was to go back and live there for a season. Just the summer. To go back and dance and experience. I know that it woudn't be the same....that it may even be really hard to return. Even the thought of returning to some of my areas is kinda.....scary when I realize I won't have my "calling" or name badge with the name of my Savior on my chest. But my heart cries for the spirit their. The spirit of the many people gathered there. The spirit of gathering is such a beautiful one. I constantly crave it. I miss having the opportunity to teach and share my testimony daily. I miss meeting new people everyday. I miss feeling like I changed a life or serving on numerous different occasions, daily. I miss my New York family. The last baptism I was apart of, Maria, actually offered us to stay with her during the summer. She has a beautiful 8 bedroom house on the ocean and she's the only one that lives there other than the part that she rents out. Oh how I would love to go and live the experience, just for a summer. It's actually a very hard situation....my heart cried but I quiet it. Do I listen? Bailey isn't in favor of going. It's honestly quite the leap. I can understand. But I'm trying really hard to understand and figure out what is best. Life has so much to offer. I do hope that I am taking advantage of it all. I want to live big. I want to experience lots. I want to get out of Idaho and Utah and live. But...perhaps that is bad of me. Maybe this is when a dream must stay a dream. Well now that I've bore you to death with my newest adventures I'll let you go. For now....

P.S

and one more thing....18 DAYS!!!

change*

Leaving the great spirit of New York was not an easy transition. The spirit of all those who are gathered from all parts of the world in one place is incredible...especially Christmas. I loved sitting on the train and gazing out the windows at the Christmas lighted snow covered streets. Being a servant of the Lord for 18 months was the best thing I've done yet. Being a tool in the Lord's hands, feeling the Spirit guiding me daily, and meeting so many new people each day was incredible. I didn't realize how great of a time it was until I returned home. As a missionary we have to be worthy of the spirit...24/7, and if not, then we cannot teach. So for 18 months we are in an environment that is contention free and filled with the fruit of the spirit...joy, peace, long-suffering, etc. It's no wonder missionaries are seen to be happy all the time. I've never experienced anything like that before. What a feeling! I can't imagine Heaven....that feeling 24/7.... I wasn't expecting the transition to be this hard. Being away for 18 months/2 years, we missionaries can't wait for the reunion. We imagine it picture perfect, yet fail to realize that what we have then is not going to be at home. It's much harder to have that spirit 24/7 in normal life. I learned how to do that as a missionary, and now I have the opportunity to learn to do that at home. I miss New York, the people, the spirit, the missionaries, teaching...and I can say that it was the best time of my life. I'm learning to grasp change. There is alot of change in the mission so you are forced to like it then. Change of location, change of companion....you even learn to change YOU. I know that there are more "best times of my life" to come and instead of looking back, I will take all that I've learned and become, and enforce that into my future. I can become a better me every day. Every day we can knock down walls of who we are, and rebuild walls of who God wants us to be. It hurts...but when it's done it's better than before. I've become stronger, and more undersanding of who I am....in God's eyes. I'm truly His daughter... each of us are His individual children. He can see such great potential in us and who we are to become, and we can pray to see through his eyes. I'm so grateful for the opportunity that I had to work hand in hand with my Father in Heaven. I'm grateful for his sacrifice in providing his only begotten son so that I can return to him someday. I'm so grateful for my brother and savior who suffered for me...who felt my every pain, sickness, sorrow, and sin. As I reflect on years now gone, I have seen the many times that he has carried me until I could walk again. I owe Him and my Father everything. I know they live, that Christ lives again, in perfect glory, and that He will come again. This gospel is God's true gospel...it changes lives and I've seen it. What a blessing to be apart of this dispensation when it is in it's fullness. Thank you everyone for your love and support while I was away and your continual love and support. I wouldn't be where I am today w/o you.

Farewell Date

Anyone wanting to come, my farewell will be May 31st at the Riverdale church at 1pm. There will be dinner afterwards. Hope to see some cute familiar faces! Time has taken its tole and its coming fast. Nerves are most definitely starting to kick in. So there is a little update. :) Love you all!

Blessings~Trials~Faith

So its been a while since I've posted and quite a bit has happened. Blessings upon blessing were poured upon me and things really started working out. I was super excited to accept my call to serve in the Independence Missouri Visitors Center. The thought of knowing the same people and going to mission reunions together was exciting. The eternal prespective was a fun way to look at it! I loved the idea and thought what are the odds! We can't just help but be seperated for too long. The day I was sending my acceptance letter I got a call from Bishop telling me i was reassigned to the New York, New York South Mission. Long story short. I was hurt and heart broken and actually...upset. Bailey and I had a hard time with this and I thought that meeting w/the stake pres would help. I also was able to go out with Jenna and James and they were great! I love them both! James was able to bring so much comfort to me and my situation! So I met with Pres. Mumford and he said he didn't know anything other than he had recieved a call from the mission dept. calling to verify that "my fiance was in the same mission." So who's to know, but after time to think, I know that the Lord wouldn't have anything happen that was against his will. I'm sad bc my heart was set on Independence but know that its not where I serve, it's HOW I serve (Bishop Fryar). Thanks everyone for the amazing support. I am super excited to get out there and do my best. I know everything will all work out.

Also! Thanks to my family who came to the temple with me! It was a beautiful experience and I loved seeing you there. And my thoughts and prayers were with those who couldn't make it. I love you.

Called to Serve WHERE!?

I got my mission call....you should really just watch the video. I tell people but they don't believe me. So see for yourself!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-lhKt3Y4juM

Wondering why we're so surprised? I think that maybe, what they felt was that my future eternal companion was there.....in the EXACT SAME MISSION......

So, I abruptly called Bailey's parents whom didn't believe me and demanded a picture message. But I quickly hung up with them to call the Bishop. He wasn't home yet so I got his wife who was rather in shock as well wondering, "What are the odds!?" I got a hold of Bishop who sighed a very long sigh and didn't talk for quite a while. He said he had had a dream that this would happen and thought about putting that I couldn't go there on my papers but refrained bc I mean seriously.....WHAT ARE THE CHANCES? He finally said, "Well, we can't have that. We'll have to talk to Stake Pres and issue another call. I will call you when I am able to talk with President Mumford." So not long after Bishop called with a different tone than before..... "So, lets say you do serve in the Independence Missouri Mission and you run into Bailey. What do you do?" I think well gee idk! I haven't been put in that position before! "Um....All I can do! Shake his hand!" He continues,"Well, President Mumford says that it is too big of a coincidence to be a mistake. And they don't make mistakes. He thinks its great!" I couldn't believe it. We thought for sure we would have to change. Bishop than says, "If you think that you wouldn't be able to concentrate and it'd be to much of a challenge, then we can call for another one." I asked him what he thought and he said that the calls are not by mistake and they are from above.

What now? I am still in quite some shock and feeling kind of.....lost. I want to do whats right and make the right choice. I don't know what I can handle. I can always get another call. There are 339 missions out there, I could've gone anywhere, my odds of going to Independence Missouri were 1 in 339. Its a very big mission and my odds of seeing him are still slim. Bishop said that we would be sure to let the mission president know and they'd do all they could to keep us apart but couldn't guarantee that we wouldn't cross paths. There are so many pros and cons to be weighed. I will talk more with Bishop on Sunday and see what is next. But as for now, I'll be spending this next couple of days on my knees talking to the Higher Power......Pray for me.

LoVe DaY

So, valentines day wasn't half as bad as I expected. On Friday, I saw the Edwards Floral guy delivering flowers to a girl at work and I seriously broke down crying....lol yup. I, along with my mom, have had emotions up the wazoo. With moving and grandma and mission and my best friend gone.....ya.....

So saturday I had another lil crying episode but it looked up when Leslie brought in a package. How I freaking love my Bailey. I opened it to find what was once a bouquet of flowers lol with torn material tied in bows around it (makes sense in picture) and on each one he had a sentence of a little poem he wrote, a little box that inside was a chain with his CTR ring on it (they can't wear rings) and on the inside he had "I Love U Lynette" engraved and he had the chain taped in a heart lol, a box with two bags of my favorite candy Peanut M&M's with a letter at the bottom and also a tape, and then a journal that had a few special thing wrote inside and 3 pictures of us that had some amazing quotes on them. I love that he can still make me feel amazing and gitty when he is states away. I miss him a freakin lot....but here are the pics we took :)

Letter From Elder Bailey Raymond Pulsipher

Here are some bits and pieces from Bailey's letters we got this week...THE FIRST FROM THE FIELD!

Jan. 27th, 2009

THE PLANE RIDE

It was so much fun. I sat next to Elder Stanford and we had such a good time. We were making one of the Elders mad by acting really dumb. Before take off they sprayed the airplane with de-icer and we were being dumb asking what that did. The one Elder was acting all smart and like he knew everything on earth explaining that it melted the ice on the plane. DUH! So I started acting retarded saying, "No, no. That isn't de-icer. Its water they have to spray the airplane with so it will freeze and weigh the plane down so we don't fly too high and end up in outer space. It was alot of fun. I was glad that there was something distracting me but it wasn't really working. It was hard to fly further and further away. (In a letter before he explained that when he got his call he knew where he was going...to the MTC, but now, he was going somewhere completely foreign and was a bit nervous...)

My new companion is Elder Kerkman from West Jordan. We just went and did service which was shoveling out horse stalls. It was great. So...I have bad news...First off I have to have a part in my hair. Next I can't drink any caffeine, and third is actually really sucky. I can't email you. I can only email my parents.
Today has been pretty crazy. I am in an all biking (no car) area that covers alot of area. I am in Wichita Kansas and cover the Derby Ward. I am going to have such buff legs when I get home.

day later...

I'm a tired boy today because we rode about 20 miles yesterday on our bikes and it was mostly against the wind. But I will get used to it soon.

We played basketball and it was alot of fun except that this old guy came and played. I really liked him because he is old and like completely insane. But I had to guard him and he really really smelled bad. I almost threw up. So I had a hard time blocking him cause I didn't think he was clean. But I will just get used to it cause I will teach alot of people that smell bad.

23 To Go

One month down and 23 to go! Wow, and yet it seems its been a year and one to go.... Bailey is in Wichita Kansas and says its cold and windy! He is in a bike only, no car zone. He bought food on Thursday and by Saturday it was gone. He said his comp was laughin at him saying that he was going to get so fat. He he. He says he see's a church on every block, nothing knew, but that each one is different and some he has never even heard of. He loves the work and wishes he knew more.

As for me I'm sitting at home and its really hard. I try my best to keep busy by studying lots and going with the missionaries when I can. We are teaching a 19 year old girl across the street. I'm learning so that is always good. Being home is hard especially without a job, but the Lord has blessed me with so much comfort and I have gained so much trust in my Savior and brother Jesus Christ. I know that we are doing what is right. And still feel so good about US! I stand firm that no one could make me happier. :) His letters bring me back to life for the next 7 days until I get the next one. They are my adrenaline, something I live for. Its so hard to not hear how he is doing everday! But I know that our marriage and love will be so much stronger from our missions. I'm still waiting for an interview with the Stake President....very anxiously. I am of course so ready to go on and get outta here! It will be hard to be away from family but I am so ready for time to pick up and get busy. I know that even on my mission I will miss him so much, but the happiness that it will bring for the both of us is indescribable.

One more thing...eternity...

And might I add...that Bailey is gone and we're missing him horribly. Its quiet and quite boring around her without him living here :) He gets out to Independence on Jan. 21 and he is super excited. Also I thought I'd post my ring for those who haven't seen it :) we all are so happy that he was able to finally go, but we can't help but say that we're also so excited for his return. We've all come to learn of what an amazing man he is. He wants me to tell everyone that he loves you and he personally said you Grandma.

Photography! and Nettie Update!

Okay, so....I've kinda been ify on whether or not to post my pictures. But I figured that it was time and also this way I'd be able to put myself out there a little bit. I just get nervous of other photographers coming on my page and stealing my ideas! But oh well, I will go ahead and post them and continue to come up with more new exciting pictures! So I hope you enjoy them! These ones are of my best friend and her husband, they just wanted some cute pics of them for their living room, so their kind of like engagement pics.

And an update on me. I'm all done with school for now! Yeahhh! I am looking for a job....booo... I will be making good money off this next photo shoot, I'm putting together a package bc their wedding is in SLC at the temple and its going to be an all day thing. So ya, I'll do that, her bridals, and their engagement pics. But I sent Bailey off a week and two days ago, I'm doing okay. I'm keeping the eternal perspective thinking that each day gone by is a day closer to eternity. So that always helps. But as for me, I'm preparing myself as well to leave here soon. My papers are...ALL DONE! WOOT! All that is needed is for my dr to send the medical exam papers to my Bishop. He will then over look them and then the week after that he will send them to the Stake President. He is sending them to him a week early bc he thinks there will be alot of red flags with all of my medical stuff. So, I'm sure there are a few who need updated on that also. The week before school got out I woke up with a dead arm. I figured I slept on it wrong so I gave it some time. Well, about 3 hours later I went to do my make up and I couldn't hardly lift it, it felt like I had been throwing a softball all day long, it was so tired. I ended up proping my elbow on my knee to do my face. So this continues, when a week later I woke up but this time crying in much pain. My mom took me into the Dr who gave me a Corisone shot and some anti-inflammatory pills. So two days later it was feeling absolutely fine, I had no problem making fudge other than it was still very tired. (This was Sat.) Sunday morning at about 5am I woke up literally kicking and screaming it hurt so bad. At 8am my mom rushed me into the ER where we waited. The nurse came in and gave me a Cortisol shot which worked a whopping 15 minutes. Then I was in pain all over again. A while later she came in and gave me a shot in the other hip that had fenegren in it. Before I knew it was I was out, thankfully. I was then awoken by a nurse putting a brace on me and another nurse on the other side of me. They then practically lifted me into the wheelchair. I then found out why. I just about fell on my face, I couldn't feel my legs and things were just a spinnin. So I got home at 11am and slept until 4, decided I was fine and wanted to go see the fam, got up and managed to walk on my merry-go-round house, once I made it upstairs I got all hot and clammy and mom grabbed a pan as I threw up. Yup, that was a bad idea. I guess my aunt and uncle from my dads side had come over but I didn't remember anything anyone had told me, I was totally out of it. I even had a dream of this dead looking lady and she was whispering to me that she was my dying spirit lol, the drugs messed me up haha. So here I am now, I'm going to physical therapy cause I can hardly lift a gallon of milk out of the fridge and we're trying to get it fixed, steering away from an MRI if possible. This worries Bishop, with the mission and all, but we have faith that everything will be ok and I'll be outta here in no time. Well thats me for now! Lol there's always something! Now you can enjoy my pictures...well I hope you enjoy them. ;)

Here are some new pictures :D

sUmMeR fUn cOminG tO aN enD

Well I'm starting my last week home. My 7 week break is now coming to an end. I worked as much as I could and enjoyed the summer I was given and now its time to get back to life. I start school on Monday the 8th. I am taking 2 classes this semester :) yeah me. I will be taking a rough business class and also my second and last Anatomy and Physiology class. Yeah!!! I hope that this semester will be as good as the last. My last one was again very busy, doing the dance team and softball team, but yet it was the best. I made some very close friends and got veryinvolved! I loved it! I applied to CSI or College of Southern Idaho. I have been accepted and am now applying to their Nursing Program. I was sent a letter from them about their Nursing Program and I am way ahead :D I was very happy to recieve this kind of news! My plans are: during this fall semester I will be applying to some other Nursing Programs and also be filling out my mission papers while praying about the right direction: School or Mission. I can turn my mission papers in on January 27th. My Bishop says my plans are great, now we just wait for the answer that will lead to action. I am very excited but nervous about a decision between two rights :) I think I may know what it is that I am suppose to do but we'll see. I went with Bailey to get his port removed on Wednesday. This was very exciting to make the last step of finishing cancer. When I was driving him home he was pale and we had to pull over for him to throw up. It was hard to see him like that again, but it was very exciting to think that that was hopefully the last time! He got his bill of clean health and is finishing up his papers. The health section is just a little different now and is taking some time. :) Laura (Kevin's Mom) told my mom the other day that Kevin ran into a girl in Korea last week and they got talking. She went to BYU-I and he asked if she knew me. And can you believe it! She did! I don't know who it was but we did the Korean club together, so that was very exciting. People in Korea were talking about me. Ha ha. So, there you have it. My newest and most recent update on LIFE!